In his 20s, Jason bought a computer at Best Buy so he could edit photos for a side business. He put it on a credit card. It was around $600. The card went into default, and by the time he finally went to pay it off, it was around $3,000.
That wasn’t the only one. His first bank account went negative, sat, and grew to around $800 before he eventually settled it for $300. Collection letters went in the trash. It took him until 2011 to start attacking the debt and until around 34 or 35 to get out of what he built up in his 20s.
A lot of people hear “$600 became $3,000” and assume that’s an exaggeration. It isn’t hard to get there. Below is a made-up example that shows how, followed by the order we’d tackle it in if we were digging out today.
How a small balance grows: a worked example
This is an illustration with round numbers we picked to make the math easy. It is not Jason’s actual statement, and it is not what any specific card charges. Rules on fees and penalty rates have changed over the years and vary by card. Your own card agreement is what counts.
Say you put $600 on a card and stop paying. Assume two things happen every month you miss:
- A late fee of $35 gets added to the balance.
- A penalty interest rate of 30% a year kicks in. That works out to 2.5% a month, charged on the whole balance, including last month’s fees and last month’s interest.
Here’s roughly what the balance looks like, rounded:
- Start: $600. That’s the computer.
- After 1 month: about $650. $15 interest plus a $35 fee.
- After 6 months: about $920.
- After 1 year: about $1,290. You’ve more than doubled it without buying anything else.
- After 2 years: about $2,220.
- After 3 years: about $3,465. Of that, $600 is the computer, about $1,260 is fees, and about $1,600 is interest.
Read that last line again. In this example, the computer ends up being the smallest part of the bill.
Why it speeds up: interest on interest
The first month, you pay interest on $600. The next month, you pay interest on $650, because the fee and the interest got added to what you owe. Then on the new number after that. Each month the pile you’re being charged on is bigger, so the charge gets bigger too. That’s compounding, and it works against you on debt the same way it works for you on savings.
Fees make it worse in two ways. They add to the balance directly, and then they start collecting interest themselves.
Just for comparison, using the same made-up numbers: with no late fees and only the 30% rate, that $600 would be about $1,460 after three years. With no fees and a 20% rate, about $1,090. Still more than the computer, but nowhere near $3,000. Missed payments are what turn a bad deal into a disaster.
Once an account goes far enough into default, it can be closed, sold, or sent to collections, and the debt can follow you for years. Jason’s did.
I eventually learned that you can’t just let debt go unattended, because the longer it sits, the worse it gets.
The dig-out order of operations
We’re not financial advisors. This is the order that makes sense to us from living it. If you’re in deep, a reputable nonprofit credit counselor can help you build a plan that fits your situation.
- Look the monster in the eyes. Open every envelope. Log in to every account. Write down each debt: who you owe, the balance, the interest rate, the minimum payment, and whether it’s current, late, or in collections. This is the step most of us skip. Jason did for years.
- Stop adding to it. Put the cards somewhere you can’t reach them. Every new charge makes the list longer.
- Stop the fees. Get every account that’s still current to at least the minimum, on time, so no new late fees or penalty rates kick in. Set up autopay for the minimums if you can.
- Call before they call you. Ask each lender if they can waive a late fee, lower a penalty rate, or offer a hardship plan. The worst they can say is no.
- Handle collections carefully. If an account has been sent to collections or someone offers you a settlement, get the agreement in writing before you pay, and keep a copy of everything. A settlement can be a real option, but know exactly what you’re agreeing to.
- Pick a payoff order and stick to it. Two common approaches: pay extra on the highest interest rate first (saves the most money), or pay extra on the smallest balance first (gets you wins faster). Either one beats paying a little on everything forever.
- Find out where the money is going. Jason gave a year of bank and credit card statements to an AI assistant and had it sort his spending into categories. Whatever tool you use, look at the totals by category. Ask of each one: is this essential?
- Ask the harder question. Why do I spend like this? For Jason, money was a way to fill a void and fit in. Without that answer, the debt tends to come back.
Look the debt in the eyes. Write it down. Figure it out. And just come up with a plan of attack.
More money isn’t the fix
Jose asked Jason whether $10,000 in his 20s would have solved it. Jason’s answer: it would have helped the debt, but it wouldn’t have changed his mentality. You need the money, the plan, and the will to work the plan. His whole plan back then was work harder and make more. Nobody ever told him to be smart with the money he already had.
Tonight, write down just one debt with all five details from step 1. Not all of them. One. Seeing the real number is usually less scary than the version in your head.
Your turn
What finally made you face a debt you’d been avoiding, or what’s keeping you from opening that envelope right now? Tell us in the YouTube comments on the episode. Somebody reading needs to hear they’re not the only one.